the reason why so many people prefer older men isnt because we have some sort of kink but because we know young teenage boys are a complete fucking disaster that can only be salvaged by the sands of time
i keep seeing this post on my dash and I’ve been trying to ignore it, but are all the twentysomethings I follow ignoring that this was written by a teenager about adult men? To the teenagers, i’m not trying to sound like a big sister here, but any adult male/older man who would even CONSIDER dating a teenager is not only a complete disaster, but a fucking predator.
The good news is that dating DOES get easier when you’re past your teenage years and it is safe to fantasize about hot older celebrities.
But I am begging my peers not to normalize this shit and not to let teens, people we should be looking out for, think that older men dating minors is acceptable.